Orgasme masculin : comment l’atteindre et l’amplifier ? 🔥

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Male Sexual Pleasure: Just as Mysterious—If Not More—Than Female Pleasure

Male sexual pleasure is just as mysterious—if not more so—than female pleasure. Case in point: people often assume that ejaculation equals orgasm or that men never fake it. However, according to a study by Ifop on the "orgasm gap," 42% of men have faked an orgasm at least once in their lives. The same study reveals that 19% of people with penises have lied about having orgasmed during sex.

So, what do we really know about male sexuality?

Today, My Lubie invites you to shed light on a sometimes-taboo topic: the male orgasm! What is it exactly? How can it be reached and amplified? Let’s dive in.

What Is the Male Orgasm?

For people with penises, orgasms typically last between 3 and 10 seconds and mark the peak of sexual pleasure. It may be accompanied by ejaculation—but not always. In terms of physical sensation, experiences vary widely.

Some may feel an increased heart rate, blurred vision, or body warmth, while others might only feel rhythmic muscular contractions around their genitals. Emotional responses also differ greatly: sadness, joy, fear, shame, awe… there’s no single mold.

What is common to everyone, though, is the rush of hormones released during intense pleasure: endorphins, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin... Orgasm is a real boost for both mental and physical health! 💪

Different Types of Pleasure

For people with penises, several kinds of orgasms exist:

The “classic” orgasm: occurs after sexual stimulation (masturbation, penetration, oral sex…)
The mixed orgasm: comes from stimulating multiple erogenous zones at once
The prostate orgasm: triggered through prostate stimulation
The dry orgasm: no semen released
The ejaculatory orgasm: accompanied by semen release

What’s the Difference Between Ejaculation, Orgasm, and Pleasure?

These three terms are often used interchangeably in conversations about sex. But do they mean the same thing?

👉 Male ejaculation, like female ejaculation, is a mechanical and physiological process that isn’t necessarily linked to pleasure. In people with penises, there are several forms:

Retrograde ejaculation: semen flows backward into the bladder instead of out through the urethra
Premature ejaculation: occurs too quickly after sexual activity begins
Asthenic ejaculation: weak or slow semen release
Ejaculation without orgasm—which doesn’t necessarily mean without pleasure!

That’s right—pleasure doesn’t always mean reaching a climax, but it’s still an enjoyable sensation. 😏

The difference with orgasm? Like a rollercoaster, its intensity can vary!

So, the orgasm is the peak of the sexual arousal phase.

The Peak of Male Pleasure: How to Get There?

“People with penises only climax through penetration.” Persistent myth or reality? We’ve got an idea…

Sure, 56% of men say vaginal or anal penetration is important for a satisfying sexual experience (according to an Ifop survey). But it’s far from the only way for them to feel pleasure. Their erogenous zones and the sensations they can bring are diverse and plentiful.

So how do you reach that peak?

1. Create the Right Conditions

A subjective piece of advice, sure—but “the right conditions” look different for everyone, and that’s perfectly normal. Even one person’s preferences can change over time. Why? Because desire and libido are unpredictable and depend on many factors.

In bed, with a partner, alone or in a group, in public places, taking your time or rushing things… it's up to you to find what turns you on in the moment.

Many sexologists agree: to experience true pleasure, you need to let go and be present. This means being comfortable with your body, your partner, and tuning in to your desires and libido. Lower your expectations, focus on communication, and take the time to sexplore. 🧡

2. Sexplore: Enjoy Discovering Erogenous Zones

Why focus on just one body part when you can touch, kiss, and nibble the whole thing?

Taking the time to “sexplore” gradually builds tension. It turns every part of the body into a sensual, erotic, and sensitive area, and increases the potential for orgasm later.

Genitals, testicles, neck, ears, butt, lower abdomen, anus, mouth, prostate, nipples… Discover every inch of each other with your hands, mouth, or pleasure accessories for new sensations.

3. What About the Prostate?

The prostate is a gland of the male reproductive system, located beneath the bladder and in front of the rectum. It can be gently stimulated solo or with a partner using a finger, a plug, or a prostate massager (with proper preparation).

Prostate pleasure can be intensely satisfying—sometimes very intense—for people with penises.

4. Don’t Forget Lubrication

Whether external or internal (anal or vaginal) stimulation is involved, lubrication is essential. Not only does it prevent pain, but it also increases comfort and enhances sexual sensations.

For safe and smooth sex, opt for a natural lubricant. 💦

Can the Orgasm Be Amplified?

Yes—amplifying male pleasure is absolutely possible. Here’s how:

✅ Vary Practices

Switching things up during sex can heighten sensations and orgasm intensity. Try internal or external stimulation, different sexual positions, erotic massage, sex toys, fantasies, and desires.

👉 Erotic massages gently build arousal. Pleasure tools introduce new sensations. Positions change the intensity of internal stimulation and help partners connect more deeply. Fantasies open new erotic avenues.
In short: when it comes to sex, the ways to increase pleasure are endless!

✅ Strengthen the Pelvic Floor

People with penises have pelvic floors, too—and they play a big role in sexual satisfaction. To strengthen it, simply inhale while contracting the muscles, hold for a few seconds, and release. Repeat several times a day!

✅ Be Mentally Available

Sometimes, the desire is there, but the mood isn’t. With fast-paced lives and mental loads, it’s easy to feel too overwhelmed to enjoy intimacy.

To help you unwind and get in the mood naturally, we’ve created an aphrodisiac herbal tea. Called Désir, it helps relax and soothe you, setting the stage for deeper intimacy. Perfect for letting go and amplifying orgasms—when they happen.